Every 40
seconds a person takes suicide (WHO, 2014) world-wide. You can do a simple math,
that, in a year about 800,000 lives are lost. This is a loud and alarming call for
the mankind to wake up and respond. Suicides in a small country like Bhutan are
definitely not affordable. The news and gruesome pictures of suicide in Bumthang
triggered my worst worries. Suicide is not a solution and therefore not
desirable, in any society.
All life is
a natural journey. It will take its own course and end naturally when elements
fall apart. Any intervention to abruptly end a life is morally wrong and
suicide is an extreme one. Without reaching the natural end, the journey is incomplete.
Nothing comes out of incomplete journeys. Therefore they are hollow.
No one lives
a fairy-tale life. Everyone has a story to tell, if you provoke. Struggles are the necessary ingredients of a
meaningful life. Without struggles achievements has no value. You can’t end
life, just because you can’t overcome a perceived problem in life. This
indicates your short-sighted approach to life.
When you
have a problem that you think is terminal, stop for a while. Look around at
people and think. You will realize in time, that your problem is not so much a
deal as you think. There are people who face much more disasters on a daily
basis and still choose to continue the fight.
When it
comes to perceived terminal situations in life, always make an effort to talk
to people because we live in a human society. Communication helps a lot. You do
not live in a vacuum; you have lot of people, animals and things around. Just
because reasons run out from your head doesn’t mean a door is shown. It just
means you could not think through. Situations are different and I know
sometimes it’s just terrible but little bit of waiting and calming down can
change the course of actions. Life is the most beautiful thing that you cannot cut
short.
Stephen
Hawking is still living, he cannot talk normally.He communicates through a speech generating device. He was rendered utterly paralyzed
by motor neuron disease related to ALS. He was left almost like a vegetable but he chose to
live and later he continued his works in popular science. He earned honors and accolades including highest civilian award in the US for his works. He still lives. He did not resort to suicide nor did he appeal for
euthanasia as, such people normally do. This is an epitome of how precious a
life is. No arguments for able bodied people, it ends here.
When young
people die of suicide it means something is wrong with the society. Society in
my definition includes family, teachers, peers, culture and trends. As it is
observed “Empty mind is a devils workshop” and it’s true. Young minds are
receptive to any idea, therefore it is important to sow seeds of good and
useful ideas even at a cost. Otherwise bad and destructive ideas take root and with
ease.
It starts
with the family to drive a sense of what is right and wrong at home. Then it is
teachers who inculcate useful values at school. Today we live in a global village and the
cultural environment is the globe itself, therefore young people should be
guarded from bad influences through internet and TV. But as adults it is our
moral responsibility to show the right example too.
In my view movies are a
very powerful medium of communication. Movie industry should put some
restraints before showing explicit, criminal, killing and terror material, because
humanity comes ahead of business interests.
Young people
think that suicides are romantic. But this is a myth. Nothing is so romantic
about taking a life. This is simply drowning of a boat with Buddha in it. For
the sake of love, you can put up fierce fights and live, rather than putting an
end to it. Taking suicide, you are accepting defeat even before you have started the battle.
If you have
a point to prove for love, you can only do so by living. Romeo and Juliet are
just the figments of Shakespeare’s imagination. They took suicide in his head
not in reality. Gasa Lamai Singay and Galem are just some invalidated oral
legends. We do not know whether they were real persons or merely a concocted
love story. By taking suicide for love, you are ridiculing your intellect. There is neither romance nor a meaning in it.
In the final
analysis, suicide is not a solution. It is a problem. You had a problem that you could not solve and by taking suicide you are creating another unnecessary problem
for the people whom you love. A normal thinking person would not do that. Suicide
for me is a sign of cowardice, because brave people chose to face and fight for
life. History is full of brave people who fought for life till their last
breath and inspired thousands. There are stories of lame people who took their
lives and left a bad legacy. Suicide was never a solution, it was a problem. If
you think it will end all the problems, you are wrong. Suicide is a big bad problem, therefore it is not desirable at all.
Au Namgay, you've aptly put it. Suicide isn't a panacea as many tried it. This issue has to find solution, other wise number says it is fashioned as solutions to problems by many. I could see impending danger with this issue. Nice read. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteSangay, thank you for the appreciation. Here i have highlighted the issue rather hastily but we never know whether suicides are problems in themselves or symptoms of some more complex problems of a changing society at large. Here my intentions are actually to reason out with the young people why it is not right to take ones own life. This definitely needs dialogue and discussion.Keep reading my blog although i am not a consistent blogger.
ReplyDeletegod knows from where this idea of suicide came from. its too naive to leave the world this way..
ReplyDeleteacho namgay, you should keep on writing..... i like what you've shared here.